"I need" versus "I desire"
Written words are powerful. They can arouse emotion. A simple word choice can change the reader's mindset. For this, one should pay...
Things to remember in the BDSM Scene
*Do not assume. Ask questions. Negotiate play and play consensually. Remember Safe, Sane, Consensual at all times. *Do not touch...
If Self-Esteem Is low
There are ways to feel better about yourself. Here are some tips to improve your self-esteem: 1. Do and be your best self. RuPaul said...
Old School Etiquette
Back in the day, of old school online BDSM chatroom, there were certain rules of etiquette. These rules helped establish roles and...
Pictures
We know men are visual creatures. Do we take that into account when we post pictures? What do your pictures say about you? What message...
To stay or not to stay...
"Why is he here if he is owned?" is something I was asked about my owned sub. I have a few reasons for allowing my submissive to remain...
Loyalty
Loyalty means so much to me. It is an important characteristic of any relationship, whether BDSM or vanilla. Seems few understand the...