Advice
I often get asked what advice I have for people starting out in Findom. I have a few. They are quite simple. Be Yourself. Do not fake who...
How to address me.
I prefer the term "Ms.". The term “Ms.” is used when you are not sure of a woman's marital status, if the woman is unmarried and over 30...
Wish List
A comment my sub posted brought on this blog. When it comes to my wish list there is more to it than just a list of desired items. I take...
Halloween sub Challenge
Many Dommes love Halloween. Tricks and Treats galore this holiday. Little subs will be bewitched under our spells. Sexy costumes make...
"I need" versus "I desire"
Written words are powerful. They can arouse emotion. A simple word choice can change the reader's mindset. For this, one should pay...
Things to remember in the BDSM Scene
*Do not assume. Ask questions. Negotiate play and play consensually. Remember Safe, Sane, Consensual at all times. *Do not touch...
If Self-Esteem Is low
There are ways to feel better about yourself. Here are some tips to improve your self-esteem: 1. Do and be your best self. RuPaul said...
Old School Etiquette
Back in the day, of old school online BDSM chatroom, there were certain rules of etiquette. These rules helped establish roles and...
Pictures
We know men are visual creatures. Do we take that into account when we post pictures? What do your pictures say about you? What message...
To stay or not to stay...
"Why is he here if he is owned?" is something I was asked about my owned sub. I have a few reasons for allowing my submissive to remain...
Loyalty
Loyalty means so much to me. It is an important characteristic of any relationship, whether BDSM or vanilla. Seems few understand the...
Con in LA
DomCon in LA was wonderful. Sub saw to all of my needs and wants. We drove from North Florida to Los Angeles. Sub saw to all of my...
Now You Can Blog from Everywhere!
We’ve made it quick and convenient for you to manage your blog from anywhere. In this blog post we’ll share the ways you can post to your...
Design a Stunning Blog
When it comes to design, the Wix blog has everything you need to create beautiful posts that will grab your reader's attention. Check out...
Grow Your Blog Community
With Wix Blog, you’re not only sharing your voice with the world, you can also grow an active online community. That’s why the Wix blog...
