Introduction faux pas

Starting a introduction to me with an "I" statement is faux pas. "I want you to..." You are here for my pleasure, amusement, benefit. In service to me, if your needs are met, that is a bonus for you. This is why it is best for you to do your homework and see if you share common interests with a Domme. Do not expect her to bend to your amusement. Read her profile, check out her website, blogs, Twitter feed, Facebook page, or even her wish lists to get an idea of who she is. Will you be a benefit to her life? Do you share common kinks, desires, goals?... If so then approach. Before approaching on bended knee, send her a gift from her wish list or an initial tribute to garner her attention. Then send her a letter of introduction on how you will benefit her life. Remember this is about her, not you.