Puppet Mistress

When we are young, we are dressed in lace and bows. Forced into a vision society has set for us. We are taught to be demure, compliant, agreeable. We are taught not to be aggressive. We drive down our natural feelings. We lock the inner goddess up inside ourselves, so deeply, she almost becomes lost.

In the vanilla world, I was a social worker. I taught parenting to those at risk of becoming abusers. Many of the women suffered from low self esteem. Their inner goddesses starving to death, hidden so far from the light, that they were wilting souls. Part of my job was helping them to allow their goddess selves to once more dance in the sun. I find it amusing when subs, with a female partner, say that she is not dominant. What do they know? Perhaps locked away is that goddess that they are neglecting.

Dommes can help their subs learn to build up their partner's self esteem. Help bring their sisters into the light to dance unencumbered by societal norms. There can be a relationship built for the three that is so special, even if one sister never really knows about the other.

There is a risk for the Domme. The partner can eventually replace the subs need for her. For myself, some risks are worth it. Sometimes it evolves, there are two wonderful strong women in the subs life. The subs are in heaven and cannot imagine life again without worshipping two goddesses.

The high a Domme can get from helping bring her sister into the fold is amazing. Knowing that a sister is free to allow herself to shine. Knowing through her sub, the Domme can nurture the soul of another. During the process, the Puppet Mistress in reality has control of two. One to further drive into submission and one to set free. Is it worth the risk?