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You desire to be an Online Domme?


What are you good at? What brings you joy? Use those to lure subs that will fit your personality/lifestyle. Be yourself and have fun with this. Do what makes you happy. Financial Domination is not a get rich quick scheme. It takes time and effort to build a rapport with a sub to make his wallet open wide. This is no different than any other job. It takes time. Time to build rapport, time to make content. time to take pictures, time to build a website, etc... Never do anything for money that compromises your values. If you want quick money, cam girls tend to make money faster in the beginning. Of course, not everyone wants to show off their "bits and bobs".

If you do not have a full-time job, I suggest finding one. No sub is attracted to another sub or a needy woman. They long for strong independent women. Ones that are self-sufficient. It takes some time to "fill your stable" and the money is not guaranteed. Never rely just on subs for your income. You will get the occasional "fly by". These give you a one-time tribute, then fly away into the night. These "fly-bys" and community whores are great. It is the long term subs that fatten your wallet. The old saying "do not place your eggs in one basket" holds true. Look into other ways to make money: video clip sales, phone "sex" operator, etc...

When subs do pay, there are many ways to collect tribute. Online services, cash meets, and wish lists are some. DO NOT give out your banking information to any sub. Use an online service to collect monies. Look for companies that are sex worker friendly and have low fees. The smaller the fee, the more money subs can put in your pocket. Niteflirt is sex worker friendly, but fees are high. Do not use Paypal, they are NOT sex worker friendly and will freeze your account. Meeting a sub and getting money handed to you is thrilling and cash is in your hands. Remember, with meeting anyone new, be safe about it. Gift wish lists are another form of tribute. Amazon and Delivery Code are popular. Beware of third party vendors on Amazon, they have been known to reveal addresses. Keep yourself safe, use a mail-receiving agency or post office box.

Most Findommes keep their personal life separate from their subs. Unless you are open about this lifestyle to all that know you, use a different name. Set up an email address, Twitter, and other accounts under your new Domme name. Never use a picture on your sex work that you use on your regular page. People can find your personal information when pictures are used in both vanilla and spice. Owning subs is great. Building your stable takes time. Not every sub fits every Domme. Ones that fit your personality and lifestyle are important. Never chase after a sub, let them come to you. Stay away from "owned" subs, it is just bad manners to go after another's toy.

Good luck and be patient.

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