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Types of Submissives


There are many kinds of submissives. Each type with their own dynamic. Within each type of relationship, there are different expectations. Here are a few types:

1. Lifestyle or 24/7 365 days a year- This submissive is not a temporary submissive. They live their life for the submission to their One. Many have contracts and all have lengthy discussions on what is expected, allowed, and not allowed within the relationship. These submissive relationships are usually sexual and long term. To the outside world it can be obvious the One is in control.

2. Behind Closed Doors- These are the bedroom only submissives. This is a sexual kink only. Scenario-based encounters that end once the bedroom is exited. Control is temporary. This is a submissive controlled relationship where control is temporarily granted.

3. Pet- The dynamic is master and pet. Each will have an animal they identify with. They desire to be your pet (dog, kitty, bunny, etc.) but does not mean they are into bestiality. Some may crawl on all fours and beg. Good for amusement.

4. Slave- This submissive gives up all rights to their Dom/Domme, they are property. The Master/Mistress controls all. Even in this relationship, there are negotiations prior. The Dominant takes on the responsibility of that sub, they own them.

5. Littles- These can be the brats. The subs that require more attention. They can be sexual in nature or not depends on the individual dynamic. The Dominant is the controller, but these subs do enjoy acting out for attention. Discipline is needed in this relationship. Protection is given to the sub by the Dominant.

6. Service Subs- The non-sexual submissive. This is the laborer. They perform tasks and enjoy instruction. Most maids/butler submissives fall into this category. They enjoy fulfilling the needs of the household. I find many pay pigs fit this category.

7.TheOnliner- This is the fantasy only sub. They only know what they have read or seen online or movies. Most will never move past this stage into reality.

8. Pain Sluts/Dungeon subs- They want the physical pain and do not always want regular submission. They are submissive until their needs are met.

Subs, which category do you fall in? Dommes, which are your favorite type/s?

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