Safety First

This is an old blog that I am re-releasing after this weekends tragedy.

Yesterday, spent a lovely afternoon with Belle Darlin and her new prospective sissy sub. This was a first meet and greet with the potential sub. This was done with two Dommes and a list of safety protocols set prior to the meet. Safety is always a concern in this lifestyle. Meeting a new sub does come with risks. Having a set plan prior to any meeting can help keep you safe, this is for subs as well. Have a plan. Meet somewhere public and if possible a place with cameras and employees that know you. Belle and I are fortunate enough to have many places available that fit the criteria. This time a gaming cafe in a local mall was chosen. The day before the meet, we had arranged with the owners a set code that would end the meet. We would be called away with an emergency. We would then be able to leave through the employee back entrance. The sub would not see our vehicle and not be able to follow. The sub arrived before we did and took a seat awaiting us. We were in contact with him via text and asked what he was wearing, so we could identify him. This description was relayed to one of the employees, so they could "feel out the situation" for us. We were given a "thumbs up" text and made our way in. Poor dear was so nervous. He admitted he almost did not come. We chatted for a while and then went around the mall shopping. We are familiar with staff at the stores, so more people watching over us. For alone meets, have a person tailing you and the sub. That way eyes are always on you. The entire time we were there, Belle received "check" texts to insure everything was fine. These were set an odd times, so they did not seem staged. At any time a code could be used that would result in a call, by the person Belle was texting, to the "mall cops". Malls are great places for meets, lots of shopping and lunch all in one place. Lots of people around to call for help should it ever be needed. Plus knowing staff gives you extra people. Weapons are an hard subject, but a cute pink taser in my handbag and a knife in Belle's were other safety devices on hand. This fortunately was a lovely meet. The sissy sub, now named Angel, was a very well mannered little one. Boot and lingerie shopping, then lunch paid for by the sub. No issues, but had there been any, we had plans. Safety first, no amount of money promised is worth your health or life. Stay safe and get that money.