Time Wasted

People have certain expectations. A new Domme might be completely new to the kink or how online submission works. Perhaps, they saw a video or heard from another person how easy it is to get money from a submissive. When that doesn't happen immediately, they might throw up their hands and in frustration write something on like "subs are all time-wasters". Let me be clear. The only person that can waste your time, is you. Dommes are strong and independent. We are the masters of ourselves. We determine what, who, and how our time is spent. We do not waste our precious time.

When you refer to the subs as "time wasters", it might put them off. A submissive is starting to desire to serve. Having just been called a "time-waster" by you, he crawls away, never to bother you again. Patience, I do not mean give them all of your time, but let them know who you are. Let them know what is expected of them, what you desire, and move along. They will comply or move on.

You should put on your profile what you expect. Some state, an initial tribute is to be paid to approach you. Without that tribute, you are not going to talk to them. You have set the parameter of your time. If you state that, then be consistent. Remember, subs do talk to each other. Let one slide and others will try as well.

If you approach a sub, then do you really expect them to pay you without knowing who or what you are? Do you realize how many women approach them per day? These men just do not have that kind of money. They are going to want to know if you are the Domme of their dreams. They are going to want to know something about you. Refer them to your profile. Take time and describe yourself. Make sure you have your expectations and desires clearly stated. Keep in mind, you might not be a good fit for that sub. If not, Next...

There are many wonderful submissive men. They tribute very well. Here is the thing, not every sub is going to tribute every woman. I seriously doubt there is any submissive that could afford to tribute every single Domme in the manner that they wish. That would take a load of money. Hell, I know what I want, then add y'all...damn, that is a serious figure.

It takes time to build the rapport that opens those wallets. Be patient. Do your thing. Write those posts, put up pictures (men are visual creatures), show the submissives who you are. Have fun. Do what you enjoy. Let them see you in all your glory. They will crawl to you