Know Your Limits
People amaze and sadden me at times. I am meeting with a new sub this week. I asked what his limits were. I like to know these things...
Cutting off your nose to spite your face
Cutting off your nose to spite your face. This is what some Dommes do. Do not completely break your sub mentally, physically, or...
For the Newbies (Domme or sub)
First, we were all new at some point. Take time to read and understand this lifestyle. There are blogs, forums, books, websites, a...
"To thine own self be true"
"To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man."- William Shakespeare With...
No Cookie Cutter Kinks
Subs are not cut from the same dough. "BillyBob" might like watching you wiggle your toes while he begs to kiss them. "JohnDoe" loves...
Language
Subs, I do notice what you say and how you say it. I learn about you through your words/wording. There are some things that are...
Introduction faux pas
Starting a introduction to me with an "I" statement is faux pas. "I want you to..." You are here for my pleasure, amusement, benefit. In...
Half Century (part 3)
I live in a small town. There is not much of a BDSM scene. I was on a few sites, but not many. I stumbled into CollarMe and found a few...
Half Century (part 2)
During my college years, i found myself working with sissies. I had two live in pets. Both were hairdressers. I was so pampered. Hair and...
Half Century
Only a few more days until I achieve the half century mark. I have been reflecting on my life. What has made me who and what I am? As a...
Valentine's Day 2016
Today I feel very spoiled and pampered. I received many tokens of affection for Valentine's Day. I do enjoy the traditions we have now...
Valentine's Day Games
In 1868 Richard Cadbury gave his sweetheart a heart shape box of chocolates. Yes, he was a Cadbury Chocolates Cadbury. This started the...
Pampering
Every two weeks I get a manicure. Sorrysub has been very good about paying the upkeep on my lovely fingernails. I was extremely pleased...
Better Than
It makes me ill to see a woman put down a wife, girlfriend, life partner, whatever. I am a believer in sisterhood. Do not put another...
Happy New Year-2016
"In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes."-Benjamin Franklin The new year has begun. Time for pets to get...